dilemma

You all know the lifestyle that we have so to many it seems weird that friends would come to me for marital advice in a “vanilla marriage”

So here’s the problem a friend of mine has right now:
She loves her husband, they’ve been together for 10+ years, married for almost 3 and have no kids due to medical conditions they both have…

Now the guy she dated before her hubby is saying that he wants her back and that he still loves her – he got married recently.

My friend and the ex still act like they’re a couple when they are together, they have lots of chemistry and also still obvious to everyone around them they still Love one another…

I know the 2 of them will jump each others bones if given the opportunity…

The love between her and her hubby, the chemistry they have and the way they act together is very different to what she has with her ex! Its more like they’re best friends than husband and wife.

I feel sorry for her and this situation but I also feel she shouldn’t give up her happiness to be with a guy who she married but is no longer attracted to in every way! She should go out and see if thing work out with the ex.

The ex has made it very clear that the only reason he married his now wife is because my friend is married and he didn’t want to spend the rest of his life alone…

My dilemma is: do I give her the advice to leave her hubby and a psudo-loveless marriage and try to work things out with her ex? Or do I just not say anything and wait for things to just naturally work out?

Help please

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